feat(launcher): initial stable release v0.9.0

Application lifecycle manager enforcing a three-phase init/wire/start sequence with reverse-order graceful shutdown and per-component stop timeouts.

What's included:
- `Component` interface (OnInit / OnStart / OnStop) and `Hook` type for BeforeStart wiring functions
- `Launcher` interface with Append, BeforeStart, Run (blocks on SIGINT/SIGTERM), and idempotent Shutdown(ctx)
- `New(logger, opts...)` constructor with configurable ComponentStopTimeout (default 15 s); no global state

Tested-via: todo-api POC integration
Reviewed-against: docs/adr/

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+# Binaries
+*.exe
+*.exe~
+*.dll
+*.so
+*.dylib
+
+# Test binary, built with go test -c
+*.test
+
+# Output of go build
+*.out
+
+# Dependency directory
+vendor/
+
+# Go workspace file
+go.work
+go.work.sum
+
+# Environment files
+.env
+.env.*
+
+# Editor / IDE
+.idea/
+.vscode/
+*.swp
+*.swo
+*~
+
+# OS
+.DS_Store
+Thumbs.db
+
+# VCS files
+COMMIT.md
+RELEASE.md